Adieu: Giving SFM a go again.
Didn't mean for it to come out so "Arty"
My original smutty version sucked because I didn't know what I was doing.
If anyone has any advice it's very welcome, especially with facial expressions, I couldn't seem to figure it out.
Thanks

JuiceSFM: @Adieu: just hover over the model and hold ctrl, there will be little squares you can move around with names of body parts like lips etc.

http://i.imgur.com/F4N8VEQ.jpg
some more advanced models will have sliders but to get more unique expressions you gotta do it manually afaik